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Relationship Help

151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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02-21-2013 at 08:53 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:53 AM.
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Let me fix that for you.
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teenbean
02-21-2013 at 08:54 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:54 AM.
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Mutual friends between me and her....

Have you asked your mutal friends about her?
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ikonoklast
02-21-2013 at 08:55 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:55 AM.
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02-21-2013 at 08:56 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:56 AM.
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Have you asked your mutal friends about her?
Not yet, but not a bad idea.
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PaintTheSkyGrey
02-21-2013 at 08:57 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:57 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
Let me fix that for you.
What is to keep me from finding a hot local chick, registering a dating profile using her name, and seeking boys around her age to talk dirty with me?

Someone wants to talk, I could easily register a Skype account using her name.

You wanna see my Facebook, here it is! But, we don't really know each other so I won't friend you yet.

And we can't really meet because I have school and work all day and have zero time for anything.
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02-21-2013 at 08:59 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:59 AM.
Quote from PaintTheSkyGrey :
What is to keep me from finding a hot local chick, registering a dating profile using her name, and seeking boys around her age to talk dirty with me?

Someone wants to talk, I could easily register a Skype account using her name.

You wanna see my Facebook, here it is! But, we don't really know each other so I won't friend you yet.

And we can't really meet because I have school and work all day and have zero time for anything.
http://gyazo.com/3e0d6ab9db4232b7...84eb4a5ddb
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02-21-2013 at 09:00 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:00 AM.
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I'm sure she's never used that as her profile picture on any other social networking site.
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02-21-2013 at 09:02 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:02 AM.
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I'm sure she's never used that as her profile picture on any other social networking site.
http://gyazo.com/d09d865a3124a9df...83fa77ef39
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02-21-2013 at 09:03 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:03 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
http://gyazo.com/d09d865a3124a9df...83fa77ef39
So you're agreeing it'd be possible for me to save her profile picture from FB and use it as my social networking profile picture?

Gotcha.
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02-21-2013 at 09:05 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:05 AM.
Scratchchin From that picture, that could very well be a male, too.

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02-21-2013 at 09:07 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:07 AM.
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so now you're sharing her picture, your private chats, etc etc with the SD lounge...

does that seem like something she'd want her 3 day (4?) love of her life to do?
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02-21-2013 at 09:08 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:08 AM.
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i swear i've saw that pic before somewhere. maybe on sd.
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02-21-2013 at 09:10 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:10 AM.
Quote from ALVSGIRLY :
i swear i've saw that pic before somewhere. maybe on sd.
Would be very awkward at that....
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ikonoklast
02-21-2013 at 09:20 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:20 AM.
Quote from vaultaddict :
so now you're sharing her picture, your private chats, etc etc with the SD lounge...

does that seem like something she'd want her 3 day (4?) love of her life to do?
Seriously. Wtf are you doing sharing her personal info on a public forum? If I were her, I'd kick you in the nuts.

I didn't read the thread but are we getting trolled?
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PaintTheSkyGrey
02-21-2013 at 09:21 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:21 AM.
Quote from ikonoklast :
Seriously. Wtf are you doing sharing her personal info on a public forum? If I were her, I'd kick you in the nuts.

I didn't read the thread but are we getting trolled?
Possibly. But I don't think so.
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